Today’s post will be a little different. Just remember I go with what I am given. Almost always, the message is for me, and I can only hope it resonates with someone else as well. The inspiration for today’s post came from a blog post that C.S. Boyack wrote. If you’re interested, here’s the link: https://coldhandboyack.wordpress.com/2022/09/23/sage-grouse/

I can distinctly remember the first time I realized life wasn’t fair for everyone and it broke my heart. Then the first time I realized that not everyone was honest, my heart broke again. Little by little my naivete and innocence got stripped away. This sweet meditation took me back to my child self, full of innocence, wonder, and trust. Life has worked hard to deprogram that out of us.
I only pulled one card today, and this is what I got.

The Ten of Cups embodies happiness, joy, and emotional contentment, particularly in your relationships and family. You have created an abundance of love and happiness in your life, and you now share this love with others, expanding your heart even more. This card often appears when you are surrounded by your loved ones with whom you share a powerful and deep connection. You appreciate and support one another, and together, you help each other reach your highest potential. It brings you so much joy to see your loved ones succeed and live happy lives.
The Ten of Cups is the ‘happy family’ card, suggesting that your family relationships are harmonious and loving right now. No one is fighting or causing any tension; all family members are getting along with each other and sharing in the love and happiness that surrounds you. This card may appear in a reading when you are spending more time with family, perhaps on a holiday, reunion, or event, where you can rest and relax together, creating fun and happy family memories and strong bonds.
The Ten of Cups encourages you to follow your heart and trust your intuition to lead you to the opportunities aligned with your Highest Good. Your feelings and emotions will guide you. When something feels fantastic, do more of it; and when something doesn’t feel right, do less of it. Allow your inner guidance to lead the way. Seek out opportunities that fulfill you and align with your personal values instead of following the path that others expect you to take.
MY TAKEAWAY:
Honestly, there isn’t anything I can add to that. I think we are being reminded just how important family is, even though sometimes we may not understand them or even like them. We chose them. They chose us. On the other hand, we have adopted families, and the same applies.
And this little dragon adds a bit more to the theme and message.

I hope you have a great week ahead! Embrace your family and try to find the carefree child you once were.
I enjoyed this post. Family and love and lessons.
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Thanks, Priscilla. I’m happy you stopped by!
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Somewhere in the last decade, I changed from being ‘mom’ to being ‘friend’ with my kids. What a difference that made. They still know boundaries, but I don’t need to judge. Inspirational post, Jan.
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That is so wonderful, Jacqui. I feel the same with my two daughters, and it’s a great relationship. Thanks for visiting! Have a great rest of your week!
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Family has always been an important part of my life, and I am blessed to have a wonderful one. Even the distance between us doesn’t keep us apart. Wonderful card.
I think the Lilac Dragon works well for this post and me.
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Thank you for your comment, Michele. I love that even distance doesn’t keep you apart from your family. A blessing, indeed. I’m glad you enjoyed the post. I appreciate you stopping by!
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I am grateful to have healthy family relationships. It’s heartbreaking to hear of others who have felt the need to shut family members out of their lives.
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I couldn’t agree more, Pete. I know families have their differences, but at the end of the day, they’re still family. Thank you for your comment!
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love the quotes Jan and cards I love to play with as well! 💗
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Thank you, Cindy, for taking the time to read the post and comment today! I’m happy you enjoyed it.
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I sure like that card, Jan. I’m visiting family right now, so that one speaks to me. Have a great week!
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Whoo hoo!!! How cool, Teri! I’m glad you relate to it. Enjoy your visit!
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My daughter and I have butted heads all of her life. I like to say she’s the stubborn one, but it runs in the family (on her dad’s side, lol). Now that she’s moved across the world to New Zealand, I realize how many lost opportunities there were where I could have been more forgiving. We’re talking more now- well, texting at any rate- but it’s not the same as a warm embrace, is it?
This post strikes home, thank you ❤
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Not the same as talking, but still, communication is communication no matter what form it comes in. How wonderful that you are finding ways to get closer across the huge distance. Love the comment about the stubbornness. 🙂 Thank you so much for stopping by, Jacquie. I hope you and your daughter continue to find a closeness! Hugs!
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Thank you!
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The quote totally nails it. And I can completely relate to the ten of cups: Follow your heart…
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Wonderful, Erika. I’m so glad you enjoyed the post today! Hugs!
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Big hugs back at you, Jan 😊
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That card is the ultimate to me, Jan. What a lovely choice and good reminder about the value of family. This line cracked me up: “I think we are being reminded just how important family is, even though sometimes we may not understand them or even like them.” How true is that, and what an important lesson. Hugs. ❤
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So true. And we don’t always have to like them, but family is family. 🙂 Thanks for stopping by, Diana. I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment. Hugs back to you, my dear!
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This is a lovely reading, Jan. My family had a celebratory gathering yesterday for my parents wedding anniversary so this is quite fitting for me this week.
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Oh, how wonderful, Robbie. What a wonderful event to celebrate. Thank you for stopping by and sharing!
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My pleasure, Jan
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Lovely. To be true, I’ve always been faithful to the 8 year old little boy I once was.
Thanks for your thoughts. A refreshing way to start the week.
Bee good
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How wonderful! Managing to stay faithful to that little boy for so many years is quite a feat. Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment. Have a great week ahead!
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It takes some work. LOL.
My pleasure.
You too.
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A lot of happy going on this week. Thanks, Jan
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I like happy, John. Thanks for stopping by!
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A great takeaway, Jan. I have a very close family so this one really resonates with me. And the quote from George Bernard Shaw is spot on!
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Thanks, Mae. I appreciate you stopping by and what a blessing to have a close family. These days families are often spread out all over. My family is the reason I live where I do. May we never grow too old to play! Have a great week!
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Both cards are beautiful, Jan. Such an uplifting message to start the week. ❤ Thank you for sharing!
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My pleasure, Mar! Thank you for stopping by!
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What a wonderful reading, Sister. Love the positive affirmation and that dragon card just completes it. Love you.
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Thank you, sister! I’m glad you enjoyed the post and glad you left a comment!
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How perfect for me, Jan! I just spent a weekend with our son and family. The time together was fun and magical! We’re planning more monthly activities. Have a lovely week! xo
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Isn’t that wonderful? I just love it when family time is filled with love and laughter. I’d say this post is timely for you and for the times you have planned ahead with your family. Thank you for stopping by! Hugs!
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Great reading, Jan 🙂 I’m with you about keeping the light inside that child’s eyes. Yes, family is so important that nothing can break it apart. Love the drsgon card as always.
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Thank you, Denise! I’m glad you enjoyed the post. I appreciate you stopping by and leaving a comment! May the light always shine!
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Lovely post, Jan. I really enjoyed it.
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Thank you, Kymber. I’m so glad you stopped by and that you enjoyed the post. Have a great week!
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Thanks for the link to my post. Glad it inspired you.
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You are most welcome. It was a great reminder of how families used to do so many things together. Thanks for stopping by!
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Perfect timing for me. Just last night, I was telling my husband how happy I am that we have more time to spend together. This morning, even though I “need” to write, we’re going out to breakfast and run some errands. Those errands he could do without me, but it’s taking time to be together that’s important.
The dragon card is lovely. Thanks, Jan.
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You are so right, Joan. Now that you are free to do more things together, take advantage of it. Enjoy the gift life has given you! Thank you for stopping by, and I agree about the little dragon. Have a great week!
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Great take away, Jan. I’m all for holding on to the little girl within! Love the lilac dragon! Have a wonderful week 💕🙂
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When I did that meditation, Harmony, the little girl that greeted me was about 3, and we had such a fun reunion. I had forgotten all about her in the ‘seriousness’ of life. Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment! Hugs!
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Great card and reading! Embracing love is always good. 🙂
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It is the key to everything, isn’t it, Yvette? Love always wins! Thank you for stopping by. I’ve missed you!
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I’ve missed having time to read blogs and respond. My life is still crazy hectic, but I got a little break this weekend, so I took advantage of it and visited my favorite author blogs. 🙂
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I like this card, Jan. Your takeaway is spot on! Have a fantastic week!
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Thanks, Jill. I’m glad you enjoyed the post. I appreciate you stopping by!
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Lovely takeaway, Jan. And the lilac dragon is gorgeous. Have a great week.
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Thanks for stopping by, Staci. I agree about the little dragon. I hope you have a good week as well!
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